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writes:Me and my guy are currently on the "off" part of our relationship an well i miss him lots...We live together an with another couple to so it makes it really hard still seeing him. We still talking so that makes it easier. But now my question is getting him back...Everyone has always said to be happy an it will make him crazy. So thats what i have been doing an then texting lots of ppl to keep my mind occupied. This has gone on for a week now an then finally yesterday he starts gettin angry at me sayin that i like this one other guy. I dunno why but he really jealous toward this one guy because he likes me. Anyway he is gettin mad saying i like him an i was saying i dont think so. He kept saying that when we got drunk on saturday i said i did. I said i think thats somethin he has made himself believe. Now its just been pretty stupid an imature of him. But to get him back am i doing the right thing? Or is there more that i should be doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): Your on the 'off part' of your relationship. Off doesn't mean on. On doesn't mean off. They are opposites.
Whether you like someone or not, you are off. You shouldn't try and make someone irate though. Thats slightly selfish and inconcsiderate.
He maybe a little bit immature. Possibly not stupid, but then you have in a sense drove him to it. As so to speak. Hes paranoid and jealous and they are his problem, but not necessarily his fault.
I am not going to constantly blame you for the downfall of him. It isn't your fault but you have made him what he is, as well as his own character.
I think you need to communicate with him. If he doesn't want to try again later. And again, and again until it gets to the point where hes just after attention and leave him. Not the relationship as such, but let the break be a break. The off be a a off.
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