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writes:I was with my boyfriend for 8 years when he left me (when our relationship was at its best) for another woman. He claims he doesnt love me anymore but then tells me he feels like he hasn't lost me yet. Over the last 4 months I have done stupid things to try and get him back, and now he never wants to speak with me again. I still love him more than anything but he says he loves this other woman. And we have been sleeping with each other up until two weeks ago. Is there any chance of getting him back??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): It's hard to give up on a relationship you've invested so many years into but if this guy can cheat on you and then on his new girlfriend with you, he cannot be trusted at all and even if you get him back, you will spend the rest of whatever number of days/years/months you have with him waiting for him to cheat or leave again. He's a bum and the sooner you get out, the less of your life you've wasted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx everyone...its hard to hear, but you guys are right...I need to find someone that loves me the same way I love them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): i think hes moved on and now hes just using you as side sex. i am sorry but i know a lot of guys who do that. your best bet i am sorry to say and as much as it hurts is to move on you shouldn't let him use you like that. find someone else from what i can tell you will make another happy as all hell and 8 years can be tough when you leave someone but screw him you can do a lot better then that sex using prick.
and if you Do REALLY want him back just ignore him don't talk call or speak to him don't look him in the eye when you walk past him just ignore him completely and if he wasn't just using you for sex then he will come running back and if he was he will realize that you found out his scheme and stop trying to use you cause he knows it wont work with a girl who wont talk to him
sorry and good luck you sound like you have a really kind heart but a dick ex boy friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): yes there is a chance you will get into bed together, but not toether as couple. Only for sex, and when it is conveniet for him. If he truly loved you he would dump lady #2, (and I use the term Lady looslely) and come to you. He is only using you when he feels the urge. Let this thug go. He is only usisng you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): Just let go. It's a matter of time. I know this is hard, but that's the way.
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