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writes:I have been living with my partner for 2 years.In the beginning I asked him what made him go out with me, he said that my looks attracted him at first, but later he liked me for me.I am a bit insecure, and asked him whether he likes the way I look? He says he does and calls me 'hot' in his text messages etc.But I cant help but notice that when he looks at other women on the street, or on the television or in magazines, that the ones he seems to like or comment on, look nothing like me!I find this strange. He seems to like tall, short-haired brunettes with virtually no boobs and very skinny.Needless to say, I look completely the opposite.What is up with that??? Did he lie when he said he was attracted to me?He does seem to have cooled down alot in the sex dept. Cant remember when we last had any. He says everything is fine.But I cant help but wonder whether he still finds me attractive at all...
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 Hi,
I think you are at that stage which a lot of relationships get to where things are becoming a little bit stale.
If he says he still finds you attractive then he does. All men have a type we fancy, for me its the young Sofia Loren ..holy cow! But my wife is tall and blond, but she knows I fancy her socks off.
I think the lack of bedroom action is having an effect on you and making you think he doesnt find you attractive anymore. I think it is as simply as spicing things up in the bedroom department.
Why don't you surprise your partner one night ? Buy some sexy lingerie open the door for him and give him an eyeful . Get some toys, movies whatever you feel will put some oomph back into the relationship. Sex is something that a couple can easily find themselves getting into a routine if its the same thing over and over again. So be adventurous, dress up, or get him to dress up , whatever. But do something different.
You may just be surprised by what it does to him and in turn to you.
good luck
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