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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this boy a few summers ago at a local theater. We both liked each other from the start and emailed each other for the remainder of the summer and the following winter. Then around November, we lost touch because his email address changed and he didn't have a chance to tell me. Then that following summer I met up with him again at that local theater and he explained to me what had happened and apologized. Then, he gave me his new email address in hopes that we could stay in contact.The night that I saw him again that summer was probably the best of my life because we were able to talk and have a nice conversation and I even kissed him on the cheek twice! (Mind you I was 14 at the time so this was major haha). We still emailed over the fall and winter and were going to attend each others' sports games but ended up not being able to. So we began to lose contact again because we couldn't see each other in person for awhile.I just wanted to know why he could've stopped emailing me all together. Like, I tried my hardest to keep in touch with him. But he seemed to give up completely. He never returned any of my phone calls or emails. He claimed once that it was because he was busy.Also, I had asked one of my friends who goes to his school to talk to him for me and ask him why he hadn't been talking to me. She did, and she told me that he had looked all embarrassed and whatnot. Do you think that could have something to do with it? That was in like December of this past year...I also had seen him again at a couple hockey but he didn't really acknowledge me much. He was with his friends most of the time, so could he have been embarrassed?Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): He could be embarrased, or he could have had a change of heart, and dosen't have the guts to tell you. Or, my personal favorit, is that he is madly in love with you, and just dosn't know how to express it. But don't hold you breath on the last part. Keep trying, in a non Stalking way. Perhaps he will come around, and if he dosen't, dust your feet off and go looking somewhear else. Lots of luck Girly Girl!!
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