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writes:ok so ive been friends with this girl for a while now last year she introduced me to one of her male friends. we got talkin and before i knew it we were texting and calling eachother i had a bit of a crush on him . a few months after this him and my friend started going out.at first i was ok with this,then my feelings started to become a little more than just a silly crush, we still text eachother and call eachother. we flirt all the time,he's also became my best friend we talk about everything. he told me recently he liked me before hes tarted going out with my friend, he also told me hes always had a little something for me. a month and a bit have passed since then i would reelie like to tell him how i feel i think he likes me a bit too but i dont want to seem like an idiot when he tells me he dosnt feel the same.i know it seems a bit cheesy but i have honestlynever felt like this before about someone hes got sutch a loving and caring personality hes notlike the usual loud mouth boys we get around this area and i dont want to ruin my friendship with his girlfriend. i reelie need to do something about it, i know it seems pretty sad but hes all i can think about, all this stuff is reelie bringing me down, can anyone give me any advice ? thanks guys,sorry about the novel :L i reelie had to get that out :L
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Just Me again i forgot to say,
Never Condone someone who hits you or bullies you or goes behind your back. If they can get away with it once then they will do it again.Even if they are bigger then you stand up for yr self and get out of the bad relationship.
Whilst you are staying in a bad relationship you could be preventing a truely Loving person entering your life, Probably one that will show you respect and not call you stupid all the time. people like that are hard to come by and the ones that are,usually are spoken for.i believe you should treat people in the same way as you want them to treat you and if, A VERY BIG IF, you are lucky enough to come by such a man, commit yourself fully to the relationship, With or without a ring.. Be happy with what you have got , and not what you could have. You could waste a lifetime going from pillar to post in search of something better. In the process, never finding contentment..I am 17 but sumtimes i acts like a 50 year old...
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 I kind of believe that there are two types of guys and girls, those who cheat and fool around, and those that don't. I know that this sounds harsh and that he isn't married, but he's not really a big catch if he's doing this with you behind his girlfriends back. The only thing that that type of behavior should be proving to you is that he's not exactly being above board with his girlfriend, so you could probably expect the same kind of behavior if he were to become your boyfriend. AND You couldn't exactly call him on it if he did do this with someone else because you are being a willing participant in this current threesome. Try to conduct yourself in a manner where you don't have any regrets about your own behavior, so that when people ask you "How did you meet?", you won't worry that someone else knows that you came between him and his last girlfriend.
If this seems a bit harsh to you, I have to tell you, this is the same advice that I have given both of my children They are 22 and 26, and they are always surprised by the behavior of some of their friends in their relationships, but then, I suppose they didn't have someone else sit them down and tell them this advice. Try to look several steps ahead of yourself, without being defensive, and think about whether or not the situation you are involved in could possibly hurt someone else or cause anyone else pain, and then ask yourself if you are doing the right thing.
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