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writes:I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 yrs. Things keep going well then they will get bad again.I'm pregnant with his twin boys. I'm not happy with him. He tells me what to do, tells me he doesn't find me attractive and puts me down.I've found someone else who looks after me, buys me nice things and even though i'm pregnant - tells me how sexy i am, i feel great when i'm with him. He's said that he'll be there for me and my boys, but i love my boyfriend and don't know what to do. HELP PLEASE.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (3 July 2008):
Life is too short to stay with someone you aren't happy with. Your boyfriend doesn't seem like a nice guy and this other guy seems great if he wants you even though you are pregnant. The choice is yours and only you can walk away but you should be the happiest woman in the world right now. You are bring two beautiful lives into the world. You need to be happy. I hope this helps!
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reader, crazy_in_luv +, writes (3 July 2008):
first of all still congrats with ur twins..
look i wud just say that wait till the babies r born.
since u've been with ur bf for 4 yrs..thats really a lot of time,right?
probably he loves u but is just taking u for granted a bit.talk to him about it ,ask him if he really loves u n wants to be with u.but dont put so much pressure on urself..u need to take care of urself,ok?
let us know how it works out.
luv ya hun
all the besr
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 It all depends if your boyfriend is abusing you or not. You say you love him so obviously there is something to work on. And he is the father of your soon to be babies spo you really should be staying with him at the very least until the children are born. There is no guarantee this new fella won't disappear from your life , you may find yourself alone instead of being able to choose between two men.
I would forget about the new guy for now, unless of course your boyfriend is mistreating you, then maybe you should get out.
good luck.
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