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*iss williamz
writes:Hey people. I have a problem please help. Am 21yrs old i have been dating this guy for almost 2yrs and hes 20yrs old. My problem now is we are from diffrent tribes and religion.thats one. Again my mum doesnt want me to be with guy at all. She once even asked to choose between her or my boyfriend. She also told me if i end up with him i should never acknowledge her as my mother. Am so confused i dont know what to do because even my brothers dont support this and his tribe mostly and not because the guy is bad. And his family have been so supportive in our relationship. My problen now is my family.please advise i want their blessing because i love this guy and we both love each other and we see a future together. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): Why don't you talk to your mum and brothers, ask them why they don't want you seeing him, it's not right their doing this, that's for sure, their controlling your life, it's not fair on you, you love this man and they are being unfair, like I said, talk to them, don't make or let them make it into a huge confrontation thing, also ask them if they would consider meeting him and getting to know him before they judge him. Hope this helps. Good Luck with everything
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reader, Amelia2006  +, writes (3 July 2008):
There are many organisations available to help you with this situation - if you tell me the religions/tribes then I can point you in the right direction x
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