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writes:i was wondering if i could get some help. recently ive been seeing this guy, we taking things slowly as (in his words) dont want to rush anything... i really wnna be with him however he claims his not ready for a relationship just yet... we are fairly intimate at the moment but obviously we dont have the commitment factor... almost an open relationship he says he needs time which i dont mind but the question is do i stay around him in that time or do i completly move away from him to give him that space and time... he says he wants me around but should i be around whilst hes making a decision?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2008): You've been waiting a long time, I hope you've been okay...
I'd be interested to hear what you did!
I'd probably advise on doing what he says - making it known to him every now and then that your here for him, and you still wanna be with him - something like that - but respect him and give him the space he wants.
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