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anonymous
writes: please read i seriously need help ok so theres this boy i've know since i was really young (as in our parents went to baby classes together)he is 1 month older than me and i have always fancied him even since i was little when i was 4 he tried to kiss me when i was around 8 at my brothers party i was getting signs that the boy liked me and his mum says to me "he's over there waiting to dance with you" i went bright red and ran off. when i was 9 my brother told the boy i fancied him at a new years eve party and all of the people that were there teased me.then he moved to my high school in yr 7 when i was 12 so i decided to tell him how i felt but i didn't no how to do it so i wrote a letter as a joke not intending for it to actually go to him and my friends gave it to him, but i said my friends wrote it. on the last day of school before the summer i decided to tell him for real but i made the mistake of letting my friends help he kept running away from them so i went up to him and said it was true i did like him ever since this he pretty much blanked me at schoolIn yr 8 he fell for one of my bests mates and they went out for a while, then later he went out with another one of my mates. i still love him and don't know what to do we havn't spoken for months and he acts different in school, but the same out of schoolwhat should i do im really stuck? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): Oh, my goodness, anon,...and here I thought you were a grown-up lady of twenty-five! I am so embarrassed! (lol!) No prob, sweet-heart. I "sort of suspected".
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for those answers i know my thing says im 22-25 but im actually only almost 13 it has helped a lot i will try to talk to him
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): Well Sugar Booger,the only advice I can give you is to be honest. The worst thing he can do is tell you he isn't interested. I know that sounds bad, but it would free you up to loads of opertunity's. If he feels the same, "Praise the Lord," and if not "Praise the Lord!!" that means your one true love is out there.. Don't play games...Life is too short. Just shooot straight from the hip. God Bless.. I will be praying for you...If you need anything, just message me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Well, hon, it seems you have a "communications problem". There does not seem to have been any personal communication here. You have either been with friends or others around whenever you have tried to talk to him. This may have been a protective device on your part, but i in things like this, you have to have courage and do it on your own. I know it is difficult for many girls, since it is supposed to be the boy who takes the first move, but there can be problems there. He may be more shy than you realise. And boys often "play games" just as girls do...like pretending to like someone else and ignoring the one they fancy most. Don't give up hope. Try to talk with him alone..away from all the mates, his and yours. You might find he likes you more than you thought. Best wishes. Tom
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Well, hon, it seems you have a "communications problem". There does not seem to have been any personal communication here. You have either been with friends or others around whenever you have tried to talk to him. This may have been a protective device on your part, but i in things like this, you have to have courage and do it on your own. I know it is difficult for many girls, since it is supposed to be the boy who takes the first move, but there can be problems there. He may be more shy than you realise. And boys often "play games" just as girls do...like pretending to like someone else and ignoring the one they fancy most. Don't give up hope. Try to talk with him alone..away from all the mates, his and yours. You might find he likes you more than you thought. Best wishes. Tom
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