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*isssassy
writes:ok im dont really know where to start a couple of months ago me and my boyfriend of 3 years split. this was due to falling out of love with each other. then a couple of weeks later i ended up sleeping with someone else and then we started texting and ring each other and getting on really well. then one nigh we were walking home togeteher and he said to me look i really like you but think we should just be friends im not looking for anything at the moment. so i thought ok at least he is honest with me. then 5 mins later after leaving each other he rang me saying that he was sorry he does really care about me and does want somthing to happen but it cant happen just yet.in a few months and i was like ok. to top it of he said but you cant see anyone else otherwise forget it. i thought hang on a minute but i agreed. then things were going really well and one day out of the blue he just stopped talking and texting me no expalnation nothing its now been 4 weeks since the last time we spoke what does this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): If we love ourselves we would never let a guy treat us like this.
Consider you have a kid sister.She tells you that some guy is treating her like a yo-yo.One minute he bounces her away,the next minute he brings the yo-yo closer.
He is a Yo-Yo.What would be your advice?Wouldn't you feel angry at the guy for her?Wouldn't you ask her to stay the hell away from him.
You would be able to think better because you would love her.you wouldn't want her to be hurt.Love yourself.Tell yourself,"I will not allow myself to be treated like this.He is history.".Do not pick up his calls
Next time the Yo-Yo comes closer to you Scream yo-yo and run off as if you are seeing a demon.Imagine the look on the people's faces around you.He would never bother you again.
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reader, misssassy +, writes (18 December 2008):
misssassy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you Gina.
i have text him asking what it is i have done erong but he never text back.
thank you
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reader, JonnyBoyo +, writes (18 December 2008):
 It means he has moved on and you should too. That kind of manipulation (wait for me and don't see anyone else) shows a complete lack of respect, consideration or esteem (his own self-esteem and his esteem for you). So move on and find someone who will treat you right.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): wow, what a player! he did like you but something better came along. that's my guess. but i can't help but wonder, you just got out of a relationship, were you dwelling on the past during this man's present? if so then you might have chased him away.
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