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writes:i want to know if my boyfriend of 7 years fancies someone else.she is his brothers wifes sister. i have a horrible gut feeling in my stomach that they like each other. he recently added her as a friend to his facebook.did not mention this to me.i am not on facebook so i dont know what is said.she goes to college and studies science, he has started talking about science alot over the last few months.he doesnt know i know she studies science,he rings me every day and i see him 3days a week.i know he loves me.but i think he likes her too.what can i do besides standing on the sidelines?
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reader, JonnyBoyo +, writes (18 December 2008):
What kind of relationship do you want? One where you have to join a pointless networking site to keep an eye on your boyfriend or one based on honesty and trust? Tell him exactly what you've told us and ask him. He may not even realise he's doing it and he may just like her or be inspired by her, he may not be thinking of leaving you for her.
Just because you know what's going on on Facebook doesn't change the fact that he MAY fancy someone else. Just get him to be honest and get it sorted out, it will be better for everyone in the long run.
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reader, samsmommy  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 You can get on his facebook and see or get your own, as the previous answers suggest. If you really want to know what's going on, he won't tell you if something is, getting a facebook, or getting on his, is basically the only way to find out. I agree with Ginalolabridga, if he's never done anything like this before and you've never had this feeling that something is going on, go with your gut feeling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): Get yourself onto facebook and into his 'friends' list - that way you should be able to see whats going on. I think you should listen to your intution - something might be going on.........
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