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writes:i've been seeing him for 3 months now although we have not discussed anything official, we have been together every single night, we get along great, we laugh all the time, we have good sex and i feel the chemistry is there but like i said, we haven't made anything official. should i tell him that i'm already in love with him or should i bate my breath and wait for him to say aomething first. help me Reply to this Question
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reader, eyehypnotize +, writes (24 December 2008):
eyehypnotize is verified as being by the original poster of the question oops, this was ment as an update not a reply...hi guy's, i'll try to make a long story short. the same evening that i asked you guy for advice on should i tell him how i felt he came to visit me which is our nightly routine , i happened to be on the phone with a male friend of mine whom i've known since i was 5 years old. anyway, we planed to go out for lunch the next day seeing that it would be a friday. i ended my conversation once we handled the logostics of our meeting. once i hang up my boyfriend(?)gets up and says good night./ taken back a little, i was cool, i said "you going home tonight baby" he said yup then left and called me from a payphone to ask if he was cramping my style and if i wanted to move on without him. wow. move on? so i asked him to please come and we'll talk, he walked in the house and we talked about his feelings but still no commitment, what should i do?
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reader, eyehypnotize +, writes (23 December 2008):
eyehypnotize is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi guy's, i'll try to make a long story short. the same evening that i asked you guy for advice on should i tell him how i felt he came to visit me which is our nightly routine , i happened to be on the phone with a male friend of mine whom i've known since i was 5 years old. anyway, we planed to go out for lunch the next day seeing that it would be a friday. i ended my conversation once we handled the logostics of our meeting. once i hang up my boyfriend(?)gets up and says good night./ taken back a little, i was cool, i said "you going home tonight baby" he said yup then left and called me from a payphone to ask if he was cramping my style and if i wanted to move on without him. wow. move on? so i asked him to please come and we'll talk, he walked in the house and we talked about his feelings but still no commitment, what should i do?
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reader, damag3d +, writes (18 December 2008):
 It sounds as if the chemistry and emotion of a serious relationship are already there for the both of you. Some men don't express themselves with words. Be happy that he is spending his time with you and SHOWING you he cares. Don't push for him to say it. Actions speak much louder than words. Just let this grow on it's own. Don't push. When he feels confident it's the right time to say he loves you he will and you will feel much better for letting him wait. You won't feel as if you've pushed him into anything.
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