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writes:I have geetting into some debt to which i come clean with my husband and he was furius he works away and did not come home to sort his son out who has got me into this debt. He had just been on a golf trip to thailand in october but has just been back to thailand. I managaed to get copie of his room bill from hotel and on it were charges for girls he had took back to his room. I have confronted him about this and oviously he couldnt deny it but he said was the first time to which i didnt beleive. Then i managed to get copie of room bill from his trip in october and on there were charges for girls when i confronted him on this one can you beleive he said he had just had them back to give him a massage when i said 4oclock in the morning he sstill said yes.then he went on to say that the privious girls i confronted about to which was four times he tok them back he said he only had sex twice and the other two times was masages when on his bill he had purchased 3 lots of condoms. now he is comming home on monday next week can someone please tell me how to the get truth out of him. He has been on loads of golf trips to thailand and i have always had my suspions. Plz some one advise me what i should do and what questions to ask him when i confront him face to face as up to now we have only spoke on the phone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): The full truth of WHAT he did you will never know, but you know enough to my opinion.
What do you want to know more? He is cheating you with hookers. Does it matter for you that he also get some massages?? Does it matter if he orders 3, 4 or 10 condoms?
Try to learn WHY he did. You can learn for your existing relation and probably for your next relation(s).
It's time to make up your mind. DO you want to continue and if you don't want, stay calm, don't fight but make the right steps.
everything has a reason
Take care yourself,
Hope it helped, if you need some advise for the next steps...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): Honestly the answer to your question is in your question. If you re read what you just wrote you should be able to see in plain black and white that he is cheating on you right under your nose and has even told you to your face by the sounds of it. If you enjoy being treated like this then stay where you are and carry on like normal and act like everything is OK because it's how your going to be treated for the rest of your life OR do something about it and pack up and leave. It's your body, your life and your choice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): if you think its not going to hurt then confront him but if you already know he cheated then wat more proof do you need? if he cant stay away from other women then you leave him and he will come back to you. someone like that is not worth your time or patients.... tell him your not going to get mad and you jus want the truth then ask him how many times did you cheat? something like that .
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