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writes:Hey peoplee :)Wht is is i really like this boy and he knows i like him but i feel he doesnt like me he says he does but i dont know to belive him or not!. i feel like im really pushing him into liking me coz i always comment on how hes looking etc. i jst wanna be with him hes actually such a nice boy but i really dunno how to explain how much i like him without him feelin im pushing him in2 saying he likes me too lol.. i would do anything for him i just wanna let him no soo he relises its no joke! thanks alott :)ashley 16 scotland :)xxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, TryingToFindHome +, writes (18 December 2008):
Hey Ashley Ummm, I'm the same age and I don't think my advice will be the best, but I can relate to your situation, so hopefully my experience may help you. By the way, I totally understand what you’re saying about you really liking ‘him’; I liked a lovely girl for five years. This year I was in a similar situation, everyone joked about us liking each over, they knew I was serious, but I never knew if she was. One day, she jokingly asked me, after I had tried for so long and I told her I loved her dearly and had done for many years and that I understood at our age things don't always work out (as I dont hang round with her friends, so it would be complicated etc), so I told her I would remain single for her until she was shore what she wanted, and that I would do anything for her. So basically I was like you, but I got my chance to really explain my feelings. But I went way too far. That night I texted her apologising, she said I had nothing to apologise for, but since that day (a couple of months back), we haven't talked, and I just get the occasional 'hi' in the corridor.So my advice to you is this, if you get a chance, like he asks you do you like him, just say yes, that's all. Don't work yourself up, or try too hard, I made that mistake and now I don't know if she wants me, doesn't or not, I blew five years of waiting and my heart still loves her so dearly.Those few seconds you get, during that one chance (if it comes) to seriously say you like him are crucial. And if he doesn't ask you, etc, or you blow it by mistake like I did, trust me don't feel depressed or unhappy, I made that mistake, just think you offered him nothing but love, kindness and respect, if he can’t offer that in return by asking you your feelings, or loving you back now at our age, maybe he will someday – that is what I hope the girl of my dreams will do.Just remember, there is a match out there for you, you just have to wait, whether the guy you adore now is your match, who knows? But keep your head high, stay strong and think if it’s meant to be, it will be. If it is not, some man out there will be there someday who will respect you and your maturity and devotion you clearly have inside you, let’s hope this guy you like is that man ;) Best of luck honey, just play it call!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): I hope Irish49 doesn't mind that I am using her answer again and again.
Dear poster,please read the answer by Irish49.Its a beautiful answer about dating.It sums up about most of the guys around.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-worth-ringing-him.html
I wish you all the best.
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reader, shiraz +, writes (18 December 2008):
hiyah hes aware of how you feel and is still making no action to respond etc be carefull hes not playing on it too much, sometimes guys are cruel like that and know your into them so feel they can do whatever,its not fair on you so just mind that one! you seem to really like him and it will be hard but if hes not interested its something you have to let go as you cant hold your own life on something thats not going to happen. living your life waiting for someone that doesnt want to know can wreck you as a person so stop it before it happens. i think you should keep your distance for a bit and time will tell how it could pan out. however if hes said he likes you then progress on this, one of you needs to talk first and as the song goes listen to your heart! but remember the sensible head side too i know its not where you want to be thinkin but its better to cover all aspects of where it could go. best of luck xxx
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reader, ShanL  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 Well jjust tell him and don't pressure him after you tell act like you don't like him anymore...no more comments just a hello and goodbye...make him think that you're over him and then he'll want you and will never let you go. Just talk to him face-to-face and tell him how you feel and then don't talk to him and you'll have him wrapped around you're finger in 2/3 months tops!!!!! JUST DON'T RUSH IT AND HIM!!!!!
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reader, maria14r +, writes (18 December 2008):
well first of all you cant push a boy to like you so you telling him how good he looks is jus commenting him. if he says he likes u then maybe he does but the only way to really find out is to sit down and talk to him about it. he will tell you the truth if u tell him that you want to know how he really feels for you.
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