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writes:I am in love. I once told her I liked her but it was not reciprical. Its now been a while since then, and we are now getting to know each other little by little. Though it is taking a while, only few months at a time that I get to see her. She knows I love it when I see her, I see her reaction to my happiness when I see her and she looks happy and we cuddle and I kiss her on the cheek. I also catch her looking at me when im not looking at her and when I look at her she looks away and hides it. I wonder why? She likes to have photo's whith me and her friends. and her friends take photos of her and I together. I think they all know that inside I really love her.We are now friends, and im happy with that because id rather be friends with her than not know her at all. Because I get to see her at the one little moment every once in a while, she must know I still like her. I really enjoy the suspence the questions that roll around in my mind and the wonder it leaves me in. Though I wonder how she feels about me? girlfiends say i should just hang in there.when ever I email her she always has somthing to say that sort of puts me on the spot as if i offended her or somthing like this...! i don't know why? but if she knows I like her she also knows I am really trying my best to be her friend and im doing well.But I love her... I cannot tell her again because im affraid ill lose her forever, she makes me so happy, I never ever thought this ever existed. I am not fooled by the perception that love is a perception itself, its not, and it never has been one. It is true, and I believe in this love. She is my moon and I am the sun. I'm beginning I should just leave things the way they are and give her my legacy of my true love to her and then let her go... i do not wish to bother her. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (22 December 2008):
 It's a lovely emotion, love, and wonderful when it's reciprocated but so hurtful when it's not. I think you should just continue to be her friend but let her approach you most of the time. Also, I think you should try to spend less time with her and do think about going out on dates with other girls. You don't have to be in love with someone to go out to the movies or dinner and have a nice time.
One little observation: you said you were the sun and she was your moon. Maybe it's the other way around? She's the one who's got you hooked, after all.
What do you mean by giving her your legacy of true love and then let her go, exactly? That could mean many different things and may not result in you staying a fond memory for her. Just be careful, is all.
Take care!
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