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writes:how are you guy's?me and my ex broke up 3 months ago.she has a bf now. once she asked me " should i break up with him " but im not sure..i think she is happy with him now I never called her in that while .. wanted her to miss me I have been giving her a ride to her college in the past 3 days.I never tried to talk about our relation..I stay fun and talk about normal things.I wonder why her bf never gave her a ride tho he has a car?!!she didn't tell her bf that she rides with me.I don't know why!I really wanna know .. should I keep giving her a ride?!should I ask her to hang out with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): Now is the time to take control of your own life and make your own decisions. WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO?
Well do that!!
No one here can second guess you ex gf mind. You know her better than us.
Take a risk or not. If you fail what have you lost?
Good luck
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reader, Undisclosed +, writes (18 December 2008):
 No, this is bad news.
You guys broke up and it's over it's in your past. You will never go back to how it was before. Yea, it was good but now it's gone. You should limit your contact with her. You definitely shouldn't be driving her to college. You have you're own life to worry about. Clinging to the past may bring you some moderate joy now but it will also bring a disproportionate amount of frustration and pain. Cut your ties and move on. Stop talking to her and move on. Stop giving her rides and move on. You have a separate life now and that's what's important. Go find your joy in life. She can no longer be a source of joy for you. You're only being teased and baited with the promise of the past memories and emotions.
Go live your life without her.
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