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writes:hey.. well I am having a problem figuring out what this guy actually feels for me.. so here it goes I have been talking to this guy for the past 6 months he was introduced to me by a close friend of mine and we hit it off really well..he stays in a different city anyways he keeps calling me all the time, there has been no day where he has not called me since the time we were first introduced..and its always him making the effort..anyways he flirts with me alot and gets really annoyed when i do not answer his calls and keeps texting me to answer his calls..and he gives me alot of details about himself even though I dont ask him..Recently I have been really busy and I have not been talking to him for the past four days and he texted me asking me if everything is okay and why am I disappearing and not talking to him.. so after all the texts and calls I felt bad and called him later and he began questioning me and he thought probably I got a boyfriend and so I have been ignoring him, he said "tell me your boyfriend's name? Like seriously tell me if you have one I will be happy for you if you have a boyfriend.. now what the fuck does this mean? Someone who has feelings for me would never say this right? Why is he making all the efforts then just to be friends?? He told me his friends kept asking him why isn't he on the phone as usual talking to me and he said that she doesn't have the time for me.. Please tell me how he feels for me agony aunts I need to know before I get things straight.. thanks
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reader, sianybarney  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 This guy is clearly interested in you.
He obviously thinks that you are not interested in him, and feels he is wasting his time fighting for a girl who doeant feel the same him as he does you. That is why he told his mates he hasnt got the time for you anymore.
He is probably just insecure and feels that as you havent spoken to him in days you arn't interested in him anymore. You spoke to him everyday on the phone and then all of a sudden stopped, he sees this as you loosing interest. This is also why he keeps asking you if you have a boyfriend, to make sure he isnt wasting his time.
If he wasnt interested then he wouldn't of bothered calling you everyday and texting you to ask you if you were ok. He obviously cares for you.
I suggest if you like this guy, tell him that you are interested but he must understand you havent the time to keep taking his calls and are busy. You will contact him when you are free.
P.s. When he says he is happy for you if you have a boyfriend he says this for the following two reasons....
1. He cares about you and wants you to be happy no matter who your with.
2. So his ego is less shattered if you turn round and say you did have boyfriend. This is to make you think he isn't that bothered if you do. But in reality he does care, so i would ignore that phrase and believe me when i say he definately does like you.
Good luck x
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