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writes:This is so frustratingI was madly in love with a guy who we will call Nick. Well Nick and I hated each other when we first met we couldn't stand the sight of each other. A year later me and him became the best of friends closer than I could have imagined. I began to fall in love with him. A few months fly by and he became rude towards me. My friend had told me she over heard him saying he didn't like me that was the reason for his rudeness. Of course I cried and I began to treat him the same way he was treating me. But a few weeks later he started to be nice to me and started to become the Nick I once knew and we became friends again. But I'm starting to have feelings for him again. Now I don't know what to do I want to be his friend but at the same time I want to be so much more. Reply to this Question
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 Do yourself a favor just stay friends it seems he isnt wanting anything more then that and if you try to push it , it might ruin your friendship even .I know its hard but you can love him as friends and remember tit for tat will only make you resent each other and someone will end up hurt and loosing a best friend ..... GOOD LUCK !!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): I think you're wasting your time with the fella. if i like a girl im nice to her and if she likes me too she's nice to me. The funny thing is some people "believe" that if you treat someone "mean then you keep them keen". that's true in some part because the one who is being treated mean is always wondering why, and it's nautural for a human to try and stop the dramatics one would cause on you, there for yo will try to rectify the problem (the false problem).
You wanna find somone who will treat you equally and not be mean playin like that all the time. ...love is meant fun... id accept it for what it is be friends and move on and enjoy with someone who you'll have some fun with.
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