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writes:Quick question - my boyfriend loves looking at my facial expressions while we're having sex (thus favours me on top, sitting up). However, I feel kind of self-conscious to have him see what I'm doing and then become very aware of how I look! Do other people experience this or is it just me? How do I get around it? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 In my opinion, you gals should lose your extreme concern about things like this. When you are pleasuring your lover with your wonderful body, whether he is your husband or boyfriend, you must realize that he is happy. He would not be there if he was uninterested or not attracted. Neither of you may be perfect Hollywood beauty types, but who gives a damn? All that matters is that you want to get him off, whatever it takes, but make sure that he also wants you to be pleasured - preferably first, or at the same time. It should always be fair and mutually satisfying.
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reader, sandra78 +, writes (18 December 2008):
It might surprise you that most women are self concious about themselves in one way or another. I guess that's where the saying " we are our own worst critics" probably stems from. I was self concious about my husband looking @ me during oral sex. I found that turning the lights off, and lighting a candle worked best for me to not mind so much. The glow from the candle was just enough light for him to see me, but not enough to see everything.. Candle light is very flattering to a not so perfect body, or whatever flaw you may have, or think you have. Plus its kinda sexy and romantic @ the same time. Have fun.. And relax.
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reader, maria14r +, writes (18 December 2008):
there is nothing to worry bout... if he likes to look at you while your having sexual intercourse then its for a reason. he loves looking at you and it may turn him on more. my baby's dad used to do that to me and i too got shy but i got used it because he would tell me that i was beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): Where do you expect him to look at when you guys are having sex then? lol
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