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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:MY friend need help please....she have a best friend(a boy),they have been in good friendship for 5 years now, one day this boy come into my friends room and they chart until they have sex since that day they been sleeping together for 5 years now...the strange thing is that these 2 people never talk about how they feel for each other..the time they know each other the boy had a girfriend but they break up due to their problems.. and he approach another girl while he was still sleeping with my friend and they just stay for 2 years with her new lover and break up again.now they boy doesnt have a girlfriend and he is still sleeping with my friend and yet he never tell her that he loves her or anything..and when my friend try to go and visit her/his feind this boy get upset..kind of jealous..he keeps on calling her and when my friend come back home he doesnt talk to her..he is always mad at her..what do you think my friend should do? do u think the boy just need her for sex or one day he will stand up and tell her that he loves her?? or can she just tell him that enough is enough? because this situation is really killing her...
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reader, Crafter  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 Yeah, story of her life, huh?Yet another poor, innocent girl is being used by those mean, mean men. So sad...How is this any of your business anyway? Did she come up to you and told you "Go to the agony aunts and tell them my life is over"? No, she did not. That leaves us with only two possible options:1. You want to help someone who is virtually helpless2. It's not your friend we're talking about, it's youAnd the answer to your question: Of course he's using you/her!And, by Jove, he's good at it too. You gotta give him that.By the time you decide to break off, he'll be so tired of you that he won't even notice you left. Then you'll realize you've wasted you time and emotions on someone who was never attached to you in the first place. You'll cry for a bit, you'll be sad and then things will improve little by little. I think that's called "life" or something.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): This is called being a friend with benefits. Until your friend wakes up and tells this guy "No More" she must put up with being the 'other woman', and continue putting her life at risk by sleeping with him while he is sleeping with other women.
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