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female
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41-50,
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writes:I had not had a boyfriend, or any sexual activity, for over two years but have now met a super guy. However the first time he tried to make love to me the pain was excruciating, just as though I was a virgin again, and he had to stop. The second time I tried not to cry out but again he had to stop any movement after just a few strokes. He was very understanding about it. He has been away working for two weeks and comes back just before Christmas. Is there anything I can do to make sure that next time is OK and that he can enter me without the discomfort that the first two attempts caused - my pussy was swollen for two days after last time and it was uncomfortable to walk.
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reader, Miss Potter  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 Well lubrication might be an option, also I am not sure whether you possess any toys, from your post I guess not. Getting one could work wonders for a single woman! Get one and try it out before he comes over. And well still try to use lubrication while having sex. Also you could ask him to finger you first, one finger at first then 2 then 3.
Best of luck x
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