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anonymous
writes:how long should i spend before being involved in sexual activities with a new boyfriend? secondly im shy of kissing than of making love coz i think i dont know how to kiss affectionately,so how can i overcome this?
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reader, Lauren..  +, writes (18 December 2008):
 HiIn regards to the first question, i think that you should wait until a comfortable time to start engaging in sexual activities with a new boyfriend, and when you and he both feel ready to move further in the relationship.With regards to kissing, I dont really think that it is something you can overcome without actually doing it in all honesty. It is something that actually comes quite naturally to most people when they experience a passionate kiss, and it is something that a lot of people worry about before hand. There is really nothing to worry about when kissing someone passionately because i think that you will find that it isnt as hard as you think. Over time, i think that kissing will become something that you can enjoy and something that you will no longer worry about.I hope that i have helped in some way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): As a rule I never answer sex questions.Most of the time I get picked on.They say my partner's a lucky guy.I feel embarrassed.I don't know how to react.I end up being rude.
This time I badly want to help you because I know how severe the situation is.I have been there myself.I was brought up in a culture where our sexuality is repressed and suppressed.I have never seen my parents hug or kiss.
I have cried about it.I thought it was wrong to feel pleasure.
you need to remember the following things.
1)Sex is not wrong.Repeat this to yourself
2)When you have sex after you start having feelings for the person it is one heck of a beautiful experience
3)Kissing is not an art.Its something so spontaneous.Your boyfriend shouldn't force you into it.Neither should you force yourself into it.
4)When your relationship reaches a point where you feel you cannot keep your hands off each other that's when sex is fantastic.It would be best to wait till then.To reach that stage takes a long time.By then you would be able to determine if your boyfriend is a frog or prince.
5)If you still feel shy about kissing after you reached the "Can't keep my hands off you" stage let him take over.Keep your eyes closed.Let your heart lead.After all no one teaches a fish to swim.:-).
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