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*MissHim82205
writes:my now ex boyfriend and I have dated for two and a half years and I thought with my joining a band (although it isnt workin out now) and attending college and working, that I wouldnt have time to be the best girlfriend I could be for him so we went on a break. Then two weeks later we broke up because he kept pressuring me for an answer (I didnt want to but I thought it was right for him)He cried and I cried. Then when I had a change of heart and wanted to try to make it work like he pleaded, and tell him, I was affraid, he then emailed me saying we should just be friends and couldnt tell each other we loved each other no more because he had a "Friend" (Mind you we only broke up a week before). He doesnt want to talk to me and when he does he speaks to me so angry and says how does he know that we were meant to be if he doesnt explore his waters. He says he still loves me and I still love him and know that I made a mistake. And people deserve a second chance! So my question is how do I get him to be with me again and forgive me before its to late? I am afraid he will forget me because of her (Although his family says he wont).
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 April 2008):
So you dumped him and didn't really explain why, other than I'm not good enough.
Do you think he believed or understood that? No, he will have been really really hurt by it.
He might be trying to hurt you back by saying he's moved on.
Tell him you want to be friends with him if he doesn't want you back, and continue to see him. Tell him the truth if he asks you any questions about why you broke it off. He might forgive you over time or he may have been hurt too badly.
Give it a month or two and then you have to move on. You've learned your mistake here, so don't assume what's best for people in future.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): emotional scars are the hardest to heal, especially for us guys. Maybe over time he'll miss you and things may pick up again. But i must say it sounds like he's moved on and you must do so too.
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