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writes:why do guys when they break up with someone who they supposedly loved act like they arent even bothered. My bf broke up with me after 4 months together and i was truly hurt, we are both 14. Like he acted like nothing bothered him but yet I heard that he missed me a lil...I want him to feel as upset as me. I know that sounds harsh but he broke my heart and im upset. Why dosent any of this seem to phase him
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reader, G_1212  +, writes (22 April 2008):
I was with a boy nearly two years and we split up....
Its been nearly 8 months apart & he still refuses to look, talk, stand near or be within 5ft of me. He split me from a previous group of friends & yeah its terrible in some ways coz he really doesn't care how cut up I was when we split up
Now ive moved on to better things...I'm engaged to a wonderful guy.
Dont try to hurt him. Be civil & polite. He'll realize hes being childish and stop this. Take the high road
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reader, Star_07 +, writes (22 April 2008):
 Guys handle break ups a lot differently than females. For one, 4 months isnt that long and another thing, he was the one to break up with you. The person who does the breaking up usually is less upset to begin with. But if he is upset, he certainly isnt going to show it. Guys just arent socialized that way, they are supposed to be "tough, strong, and independent" which is a big reason why they might not show their true feelings.
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