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*ostinlove18
writes: i like this guy who is 10 years older than me he is married and has 3 kids,he likes me too.what should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Smiffy +, writes (21 April 2008):
I agree with both posts here....1. Why tie yourself down with baggage at your age?2. Dating married men rarely works out as they have the best of both worlds, mostly females such as yourself are a bit on the side to give him what he wants when his wife doesnt, if you know what I mean?3. Do you really want to be involved with a man that is cheating on his wife, no matter what the problems are, as most likely in the future he will do the same again.4. Ask yourself, do you want to be tied down at 21 with the stepkids visiting, possibly hating you for splitting up there family.Sorry but I would walk away while you still can...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Nothing! If he starts something with you while he is married, what would stop him from doing it to you if you were married to him? If he doesn't have the courage to either fix his struggling marriage or get out, then he has the potential to be a bad partner. Not a good way to start off.
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reader, Collusion +, writes (21 April 2008):
Don't go there.
HE'S MARRIED, with CHILDREN. If his relationship falls apart separately from your involvement, then that's a different matter. But you shouldn't hasten it along.
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