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writes: My husband used to look at porn and hide it- before we wre married. He said he didn't anymore. I know he can hide it as he's a computer wiz. We spent a lot of time apart because he's in the Navy. I drive myself crazy thinking he's lying- that he looks at porn, talks to past girlfriends now and hides it. I found that he would do these things before- he didn't know I caught him- when I confronted him he now suddenly has no texts from other women- as if he's erased them. He has also lied tome about other things! Should I believe him??
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reader, SAL0656  +, writes (24 April 2008):
The worst part is the lying. The porn can be dealt with, but trust is something that should not be broken. I am going through the same thing somewhat. My newly wed husband was on a site where he could talk to old friends from college and high school. Well turns out he was talking to an ex-fiance. So he tells me he is done with the sight... well today I look on the site and well.well.well. guess who I see. So I am gonna put my foot down with this lying mess. It shouldn't be tolerated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): women never have all the power when porn is involved as the last poster said...when a man watches porn he is degrading his partner, sending her a message that her body alone is not enough to turn him on...afterall if it is enough why hould he need to look at other women?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): i am a man and love porn. i don't know about you but you should watch it with him, when he sees porn he wants to do that with you, if you pussy whip him he will know that no other woman can please him like you, then you will have all the power
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): Probably not. A man who tells you he doesn't look at porn is a man who is lying.
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