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writes:hi, im 18 years old and there is this guy that ive been knowing since i as in middle school. after graduation from 8th grade we both went our seperate ways he was never a guy i would think i would have an interest in because he wa a nerd back then...as years passed by some trajic things happened in our hometown and everyone seperated, i moved to houston around when i was 16 going on 17 and i found it being very lonely out of the blue i get a message one day from my childhood friend asking me for my number....i think about it for a while and ask myself what i should do...after thinking and discussing this with my friends i realize why not give it a chance after giving him my number..he calls and we talk for a while i told him that i had just moved to texas and coincidentally he lived maybe 15 minutes away after maybe three days he came over he was a HOTT nerd this time he was football player anyway we chilled and got comfy and when he left i got no call from him... i was so hurt and confused we didnt have sex or anything but i thought we were going to start having something going b/c i had never let a bot touch me before being that im still a virgin at at the age of 18 anfy way 1 year and a half ahve passed and we talk on and off and it seems like whenever i get back to talking to him i get head over heels for him he comes over and then i might hear from him i dont really know how to let him know that he has hurt me in so many ways, its almost like he calls me and blows my phone up when he wants to be bothered..... i want to be in a relationship with him so bad and i feel like im not good enough for him someone pleae help me b/c im falling in love with someone that might not feel the same way about me as i feel for him. i dream about him i have fantasies about him and they are pretty nice fantasies.....so someone please help me and let me know what i should do to get his attention to let him know what i feel for him isnt a game and i want to build a future with him b/c in may both of us will be graduating from high school and i want him to know that if he does go off far away to college that he had a good thing right in front of his ver yown eyes and he passed it right up!
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reader, DiDi313 +, writes (22 February 2011):
Tell Him How Yuu Feel!
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reader, philips1674 +, writes (23 October 2009):
Well suddenly taken by the past, If you want some clues I think you should first of all try to picture that future that you refer to. Let's suppose that he has different values from yours! What if he is unwilling to make changes; as most people are unwilling to give up what they like most!On a different note this might be good and grow old gracefully. I feel and you invited me into your thoughts, take some time to learn from him and you. Most virgins are just that... so while you have an opportunity to do so, remember this; you have no experience you admitted that. so making assessments of things like this is going to be tough for you, don't rush because you won't want to ruin the future for yourself and possibly someone that might really want the same things as you do. you waited this long so what is the harm in checking thns out?
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reader, glamour101 +, writes (23 April 2008):
glamour101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks gabe you really mad me think about this whole situation your advice was great!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): hi,hope you'll accept my critics. look dear ur a yong beautiful girl full of live and joy. you might have some dark thoughts but who don't. my point is u have everything you need health intellegence everything that a guy might be looking for. so don't just burn the moment ok ur first time having sex should be special don't waste it on folowing a weird guy that you're not even sure if he likes you or not. don't look for anyone just trust yourself and wait the right one he'll come on his fet to you. that guy well he might love you but i bet he don't care about you he's just a passing by in ur life true love is way deeper than that. have you ever thought that maybe someone told him you liked him so he came to you in the first place?? look i'm barely 19 and i never found my special girl yet not cause i'm not wanted cause i didn't find my match. i had a girlfriend we were in love for more than a year and we never had sex too. anw the first time is soooo special and trust me after 10 years you'll regret that you waist it on a stupid person that dosn't know your value yet. don't follow him let him follows you ok. nothing in this life worth to kill ourselves for. so pick up your dignity you struggled for him enough. it's about time that he makes the wanted move.......hope u liked my answer bye, just remenber you're the girl here you're the one who needs to be loved...................................................love gabe
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 April 2008):
 If a man loves a woman , it does not matter if she comes from the hovel or gutters.
He loves her for who she is.You should not think , you are not good enough for him.
Man does not think that way.
If you want him to take notice of you , you will have to be highly visual in his world.
Take more interest in what he is doing and where he goes
and arrange for more incidental encounters.
Communications is the key.
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