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My sister is driving me nuts!!!!!

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Question - (21 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ady xtina writes:

I'm 13 and my sister is driving me mad, I have started making myself sick so I'm so skinny she will stop calling me fat, I'm at the point were I want to move out as I can take it no longer if I don't I may resort to bigger measures to stop my 16 year old sister from making me depressed.

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A female reader, pfiola Nigeria +, writes (22 April 2008):

pfiola agony auntgal just ignore her watever she says just say some tin lik u do think so wit a kind of funnie look on ur face or really, whatever sis just say sometin odd 4 some time she'll stop i tell u dat i've been true it

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A female reader, A Cappella United States +, writes (21 April 2008):

A Cappella agony auntHey Lady Xtina,

work to be comfortable in your own skin, so that whatever anyone else says bounces off. as long as she can yank your chain by saying stuff about you, she has power over you.

you get self confidence by keeping busy: join a sports club, take a dance class, sing in a choir, anything you can do that you're good at. Bonus points if it's with other people. Work on liking yourself for who you are, not for who other people think you should be.

And by the way, self-confidence is SEXY.

The next time your sister says anything about you, just look at her as if she's a gnat and say absentmindedly "whatever" or "really." No hurt. No anger. Nothing. For a while she may double the attack -- she likes the power she has over you. Eventually, if you simply don't rise to the bait, she'll give up.

It has the added benefit of making her look like an ass (she's the one who picks on you while you do nothing mean to her). Family and friends will notice.

Good luck hon.

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