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*azzyBarry
writes: Please can somebody give me advice, I had sex the other day with my sexual partner, it was missionary, and he did come inside me but pulled out very soon after, I cleaned myself up and sat up straight away. The thing is this happened right in the middle of my cycle when you're meant 2 be ovulating, I know it's a possibility that I'm pregnant but I'm almost sure I can't have kids, I've had a lot of unprotected sex with partners that have children and I haven't yet gotten pregnant, I'm just confused on what to think about it all, any advice?
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reader, CazzyBarry +, writes (5 May 2008):
CazzyBarry is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advise, a few days after that post i realised i was late for my period, i got a couple of pregnacy tests and did 1 just to see, and it turns out im actualy pregnant, i did the other test to confirm it and payed the doctor a visit, im thrilled i can have children, i no i want to be a mum,, but i think this is far too early for me and im devisted at the possible decision im gunna have 2 make due to family promblems. its gunna be a hard couple of weeks!
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reader, A Cappella +, writes (21 April 2008):
Yes of course you could be pregnant. Even if he had pulled out before he came you could be pregnant.
You can get some of those pregnancy tests that you take before you've missed a period, but they have a higher failure rate. (They told me I wasn't pregnant when I was.) If you know when you're ovulating, you know your cycle. Wait until you've missed your period and get a test. Or get the blood test from the doctors office.
If you're really concerned (and don't want to be pregnant) go to the doctor and get a morning after pill, and while you're there get on birth control.
I went years wondering whether I could get pregnant. Then, when I WANTED to, we hit it the very first time we tried (I was 37). Chances are you are fertile. Counting on not being able to get pregnant just because you haven't gotten pregnant yet is a way to become a parent before you want to be one.
Good luck hon.
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