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*adyleesha
writes:Ok here it goes. My bf is havin trouble with his roomates or whatever. So me and my mom went over there he knew I was comin over, but anyway when we came to the door his roommates girl answered the door( she lives there too) and my mom asked where my boyfriend was, and she called his name and all I heard was a big boom like he was startled and hopped of the bed where he was at. So is it wrong for me to think that they was doin somethin cause she was high and he had been drinking not enough to get drunk but u kno one thing leads to another. So after me and my mom left I called him and told him that I didn't like the fact they were so close in the room together and if he was doin anything that he needs to tell me, but after all that he was bawling like he could barely talk and he told me he didn't want to lose me. But my friends told me that guys can make themselves cry. So should I believe him? Help!!!
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reader, ladyleesha +, writes (22 April 2008):
ladyleesha is verified as being by the original poster of the question I think he was cryin because, he feels like hurted me in a way that he didn't want to. Cause all his past relationships, the girls did him so wrong and he finds me the one girl that doesent use him (he told me that he spent at least $1500 all together on girls, crazy huh?) and I'm goin to let it past cause his roommate is movin on the 3rd of may, and I love him and it hurts, and he's so sensitive and a sweet guy so I don't think he's lyin
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reader, emily.christina  +, writes (22 April 2008):
I have never ever seen a guy make himself cry, it would be about as hard as us girls making ourselves give a performance-worthy bawl except harder cause guys also have to get over the macho factor in order to do it, but what do you mean when you say they were so close in the room? They were sitting in the same room, it doesn't mean that they were touching or even doing anything for that matter. I think you should believe him, but I don't know him. If he treats you right then stay with him since you don't have any proof, or you could always move in with him so he doesn't live with that girl anymore? Good Luck
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (22 April 2008):
 Doesn't sound good. Why would he cry for absolutely no reason? I suspect the same thing that you do and the tears were out of guilt. It's up to you whether or not you can look past this and believe him in the future, but if he lives with the girl, you might want to think about walking away from this mess. Sorry if this was a bit blunt, Hun. Best of luck with everything.
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