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writes:BF of a year and me split a few weeks ago,but tried to remain friends,as i was still in love with him this was very difficult(he stated he wasnt,contrary to his actions)Anyway today we had a massive fight because i wasnt happy with the friends set up as it was just messing with my head.So a lot of stuff was said that wasn't really meant and i am the one feeling bad.I didnt want us to finally part on bad terms and this is now bugging me.But,I dont want to be the one to contact him and apologise as he may think i am just trying to keep contact which he wants,we were both in the wrong today and like i said I didnt want to stay friends as it was messing with me,but a couple of months down the line i would have once i was better,but feel as if the door has been shutWhy am i feeling so bad when he was the one to finish it originally,and where to go from here? Reply to this Question
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reader, Star_07  +, writes (22 April 2008):
 Trying to remain friends with someone you were involved with is very difficult. For one, you have to close the old relationship to open a new one. Maybe you should allow some space for a while and then try to contact him. I think the best thing is to openly talk about what the problem was (you werent ready) and how you guys could be great friends. Be honest. If you feel you could be friends with him but arent ready to, then you should probably tell him that.
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