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Do you think his approach to me has changed since the last email?

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Question - (21 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 21 April 2008)
A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

This guy with whom I've been in touch with for more than a year now, I always been the one emailing him and he always replying right away. We've become friends, he's a GI so mainly busy. Recenty got deployed and before he left, I wrote him wishing good luck and hoping to be in touch.

He said he was going to be very busy and when he was gonna be back he was definitely be in touch.

Well, this week I send him a joke and to my surprise he replied but this time he asked me "How are things down there?" Only that line... I live southern from where he is, lime at the same time stating he's back!

I used to be the one asking him before, but this time he's the one asking me how are things doing with me.

I see now he prove his word, but now Idk if he finally is taking a more possitive approach as showing a little little interest in me?

He's not much of a email guy so that's why I'm asking.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (21 April 2008):

You can't pin all your hopes on a long distance GI who hardly emails you. There must be someone in your own area who you have a chance to meet in real life?

I don't think the phrase "How are things down there?" means he's back. If he got deployed somewhere the chances of him being back so soon are tiny.

And if that's the most affectionate thing he's said to you then you really are scraping around for crumbs.

Email him back and ask him where he is etc.

But find a man who's willing to give a bit more than that. You deserve more than that.

Good Luck!! xx

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