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writes:i and my honey have been together for almost 2 years. i really love him so much even if he is younger than me. last november he cheated on me and said sorry for that and i did coz i was in love with him but know i am tired of him specially after i found out that he had been with her for almost three month and i asked him but he denied everything anyways i love him very much. we always fight eachother coz he never respect me and he insulted me infront of our friends.he always seems happy when he spend his time with his friends.i guss prefers to enjoy with his friends instead of with me plus he never offer me when he wants to go out to the club. and he doesn't allow me to go club if i tell him.i always asked him why but he doesn't have any answer but sometimes he tried his best by cooking
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reader, Stayc63088  +, writes (21 April 2008):
 Come on... What is it you are asking. You know you need to leave him. You did not mention one thing you even like about the guy! You are tired of him because he was cheating on you, for 3 months... Are you sure you even love him or is it the -being in a relationship- you love? Common sense, he cheated, he insults you, you are tired of him, he doesn't "allow" you to go to the club (I can't even imagine someone telling me what I can and cannot do), and he clearly does not appreciate you or love you. Sorry to be rude but you don't cheat on someone you love for 3 months. I think you may be scared to leave because of the years you have put into this relationship, but seriously, get out. Get someone who treats you right and gives you the love you deserve. This ass deserves to be alone. Good luck and I hope you take this advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2008): It sounds like he doesn't respect you at all. If I were in your shoes, I would permenently dump him!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 April 2008):
 You could walk away from all this if you wanted.
If you do not want to leave, then you need to be more
affirmative and tell him your limits and boundaries.
Don't let him trample and walk all over you like a doormat.
If you do not stand up to him , you will never get his respect for you.
He would continue to abuse you and it will get worse in time.
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