A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I am currently seeing my toy boy of 5 years, i am 40 and he is 22, and I love him with all my heart but recently we have been falling out, well i have. I am insecure and convinced that he will be running of with the first young woman who shows him attention.On Friday during a night out I asked him if he was happy, he replied with a shoulder shrug, I said do you want to go on a break and he replied ''how long'', well then I got up said it was over and went home, he slept on the couch. The day after I told him let's split then, I didn't mean any of this but I was that angry I packed his things and dropped them at his relatives, he saw me and asked if we could talk, I said no. I am heartbroken, I couldn't face work, he has left his 2 dogs that rip up the house because his family wont let him have them there. To top it all I rang him at work to see how he was and asked if he was going to ring me, he said yes.I suggested he come over tonight to talk, but he said he can't he has some family thing on. I simply said if you don't ring me before 10pm, then I know it's really over. Why did I throw him out?I feel so stupid, but I know I make him unhappy by my constant moaning and we never go anywere, I am just waiting for the day he tells me 'I met somebody else'How do you get the self esteem and confidence I had 5 years ago?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 April 2008):
 Use your charms and your feminine wiles to get him back.
Apologize and blame it on PMS.He will understand.
I think he will come back for you as you offer him the perks which he cannot get anywhere.
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reader, daniellexxxx +, writes (21 April 2008):
 If you dont stop thinking he will leave you for another women (younger) Then he will you have to trust him yes he's a lot younger than you but that doesnt mean it cant work if you try.
Talk to him and tell him you didnt mean to kick him out as you didnt. Suggest going away for few days a little trip that way you can sorts thing properly just the 2 of you.
Good luck.
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