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writes:Hi i am an 18 year old gal. So theres this guy (28 Years). ive known him for about 5 years and we've been really good friends ever since. Recently, I've developed feelings for him and i think he has for me too. But we both come from the same strict religious circle, and it would be impossible for us to work, even if there was no huge age gap. I want to tell him how i feel but i just cant. Im sure its not just a crush thing because i don't fall in love easily and this would be the second time I've felt so strongly bout anyone. Any help would be much appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni guess two out of three is anyones game... thanks for the help though rcn!! at least someone understands..yea you should date someone from the same religious circle .askoldersister, but in my part of the world and in this religious circle, im considered too young to date..The relationships that we have with guys is supposed to be like sister brother ... especially between guys who are soo much older then us girls. I speculate that your next question woule be that there must be some relationships happening. Thats true but it always happens in secret. If you were too be found out it would mean that the entire community would be talking about you"dirty lil secret"
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reader, rcn  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Protect your friendship and watch the signs. (1) When he talks to you does he touch, like a shoulder or pats you on the back? (2) When sitting by him talking his knees will tilt toward you, or he'll lean in the direction you're sitting. (3) When you take a drink, if he's consumed in you, he'll raise his glass and drink at the same time.
You can tell, without coming out and giving your little secret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso i should go for it and tell him how i feel and hope and pray that i'm right and he feels the same way? and that this doesn't destroy our friendship? im not being sarcastic or anything ..its just that this is such a frustrating situation
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reader, rcn +, writes (1 April 2008):
I'm not going to get into a religious battle here. Everyone has certain beliefs, and they vary. But let me ask you this. Why should love be restricted? No matter what religion you're in, isn't love the main foundation?
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