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*eggiej
writes:Hi(i am in the last year of secondary school)I used to like this guy ........... to cut a long story short i liked him + i thought that he liked me, (he might have been joking).A few days ago he got a girlfriend and didn't tell me, + now he is even going out with her.I feel upset, i know that me + him weren't going out but it is still upsetting.(Anyway there is another guy that i like + he might like me, i don't know. if he is flirting with me, he is flirting with one other girl too).What do u think i should to let me feel better: flirt back with the other guy, ask the other guy out, flirt with other, make him jelous, or what do think?Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): In a word, yes, it will make you feel better. Believe me! Lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Hi HunnyAt your age alot of this kind of thing happens belive me I remember it like it was yesterday, And the first thing you need to do is gain self confidence so that you feel better and good about yourself no matter what happens, Alot of flirting happens and if you want to make someone else jealous then that means deap down your not happy, There will be many boys you like and not all of them can feel the same sweetheart its a hard time of your life, Ive got 2 boys so Ive seen it from there point of view and I remember it from my own..self sesteem and self confidence are a must when growing up at this difficult time....Im going to send you a link to read to help you love....http://www.smith.edu/ourhealthourfutures/selfesteem.htmlYou need to be yourself and not feel pressured to do anything, If a boy likes you you will know and its so difficult being a teenager as you just never know from one day to the next who's going to like who, So hunny learn to like you first, There is nothing wrong with flirting most of the population do it hunny its being let down like you were with this first boy you liked that can make you feel bad, Just remember its not you ok and enjoy being who you are and most of all have fun..I hope this helps sweetheart WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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