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I'm looking at my best mate in a different way, what's wrong with me?

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Question - (1 April 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm 14 and think I might be gay. Recently I've started looking at my best mate in a different way. I keep looking at him from behind and his crotch althogh this makes me feel dirty. Whats wrong with me?

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A female reader, caraduddy United Kingdom +, writes (6 April 2008):

caraduddy agony auntyou can be bi-sexual if you have feelings for other men. Or you could be bi-curious if you are just curious on what its like doing things with another person of the same sex. It depends on your feelings really

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008):

Im Around Your Age;;

And most teens like us start thinking about people in the same sex, as in what would it be like making out with them etc.

There is nothing wrong with you, yoour probably just going thru a phase and just curious. This Phase might end in a few months/weeks, but if it doesent it's nothing to be ashamed of.

But as One Aunt Said If you like girls to, then your bisexual. It's Just Hormones. Yoou Should Get Over it Soon .

LOOOVEE YOOOU

x3

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008):

At your age it's normal to feel a thousand different things at once! Maybe it's just a phase that'll pass in a couple weeks/months or years even! But don't worry about it at all! There's no need for any labels at your age or even when you're older to be honest!

Good luck!

xx Hope xx

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A male reader, lboy United Kingdom +, writes (2 April 2008):

lboy agony auntdear reader,

your still young you may just be looking at your best friend in this way because your curious, you feel dirty because you think it's a bad thing but experimenting sexually at your age is not wrong its natural, the amount of str8 happily married men you could find that have had a gay experience at one point in life is huge, its a part of life embrase it but maybe find someone else to experiment with becaus eotherwise your friendship will change and things wioll get weird lol. if u liek it your either bi or gay if not then your just bi-curious and the phase will pass lol. anyway thats all ive got for ya.

good luck

lboy

xxx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

Don't worry you have years to figure that out. Youre not abnormal- everyone has odd feelings at some time or an other. Just take your time and figure out what it all means.

As for feelings for your best mate.Dont say anyting just now. Give it a while by the time you figure out your prefrences someone else may have come along.

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A female reader, AppleBottomJeans United Kingdom +, writes (1 April 2008):

do you fancy girls too? if you do then you might be bisexual or bi-curious. if you just fancy boys then yeah youre gay but that nothing to be ashamed of - theres loads of gay people in the world! be proud of who you are n good luck! :-) x

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