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writes:I'm constantly worried. I'm in a long distance relationship. The guy I'm with has mostly female friends who he talks about a lot. He loves me. I know that much. What if he's cheating, though? There's always a possibility. That's my main worry lately. It's really messing me up. I don't know what to do. I'm a mess. Crying all the time. Never stopping worrying. Not being able to sleep or eat. I'm losing weight and trying to get prettier, just to please him to make him feel like he doesn't need to cheat. What can I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2008): Well, I've had such case LDR & just ask him if he's another girl, you'll know , if he denies it , he still wants you or care for you & think of your reunion , what are his plans & that's more important !
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): That's very sensible of you. It's a nice change to hear of a young lady who's getting her priorities right for once!
You'll have all the time in the world to start having relationship problems when you're in your twenties, and I wish you the very best of luck with university when you eventually get there.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses. I'm still not sure if he's cheating or not, but anything is possible. Uncle_Phil, I understand what you're saying about the school work. That's why I'm glad it's long distance. It gives me a chance to work hard and go to college and university to get the qualifications I need so I can stand on my own two feet.
Thank you again.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Sweety, if you really sense the fact that he's cheating, he is especially since its a long distance relationship.to be honest I don't believe in long distance relationships its really pointless.babe don't even waste your time..trust me...xoxo
Mrs.charles2b
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Basically, if he loves and misses you as much as you love and miss him, he won't cheat.
However, if he's going to cheat there's nothing you can do to stop him. Just bear in mind that if you keep on about your worries to him, it'll probably get him thinking that cheating is a good idea - if he's going to get accused of it he might as well do it!
I have to say though, that at your age there are far more important things in life to be worried about - like getting decent exam results in a year or three. Boys are just a distraction from the really important things, although it probably doesn't seem that way to you at the moment. But it will, in time.
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