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writes:Hello! I am seriously clueless when it comes to dating. Just got out of a long term relationship. I'm gonna make This as short as possible. So I saw the guy I like on Fri. A bunch of us went out to dinner for his brothers bday. I am close to his whole family since I work with his aunt. Well he wasn't feeling good so he left after dinner and we all went out for drinks. well his sister leaves not to long after we are at the bar. And messages me a lil while later telling me that if brother needs a ride home to call mark who is the guy I like and gave me his number. Now it was weird cuz he said he was goin home to sleep and I could have very well driven their brother home. So after a while my friend and I decide to leave. So I message mark and tell him that we were leavin so I couldn't let him kno about his Bro needing a ride home. So we send a couple of messages back and forth talking about his brother and him being sleepy. And that was it. So the next morning I message him to make sure his Bro made it home ok. Got no answer. His aunt also said that she tried callin him that day and got nothin. So from here I dunno where to go. His aunt knows I like him so I dunno if she said somethin to his sister and that was why she happend to give me his number or if it was strictly incase he needed a ride home.. Even tho he was there with other friends. I don't want to message him and have him be like why is she messaging me.. Since I got his number from his sis not him. What do ya think?? So confused!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo I messaged him a lil bit ago.. And no response yet... I am sad. I got so many mixed signals from him
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 I think you should get in touch with him somehow. You are worried, so just ask if his brother got home okay. Then just ask him how he is and go on from there. Don't be scared. Just talk to him. Get in touch!
Wishing you the best
xx
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Honestly i would tx him even if its just to check he is ok after he didnt tx you back. Strike up a conversation maybe make a joke that his sister gave you him number when he was with friends and you are a little puzzeld as to why.
Be straight with him and maybe ask him out for a drink. Men these days generally like girls to be straight upfront and not old fashioned ie, the man has to do the chasing.
Good luck
Peaches
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