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writes:HiAre there any other guys out there who would like to see thier wife have sex with another guy. i dream about it and when we have sex talk to my wife about her doinging it with other. i have showed a friend nude pic of her.i love my wife and don't thing i could go through with it but cannot stop thinking about it. and it does turn me on
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reader, heimecky  +, writes (1 September 2010):
Sometimes I have the same dreams.
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reader, Deepdepth +, writes (16 August 2008):
Hi. Agree in principle with all advice to date as it's based on no-one getting hurt- good, it's not such a bad world! For my wife and I, it was a pleasant fantasy inside other ones and included her doing some mild things (example: not wearing panties or bra out to dinner, topless when answering door for pizza). We fully explored it however one time with a sexually-frustrated school-friend of mine who was plain down about lack of success with girls. My significant other (after MUCHO discussion btw. us) agreed to be his surprise birthday gift at night but we took a lot of precautions 9eg no-one else around. I got the video (yes, it's hot) but especially when as she played to resist him. The rest had few words in it, just a lot of...coming and going. It was the once, it was done, yes, he asked again but "no" was the answer and he greets her now with a strong cuddle but that's it. So for now we're okay.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Now that's a smart move.
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reader, JoLoBo  +, writes (1 April 2008):
I think showing pictures of your wife to another person without her consent could create problems within your marriage. However the fantasy itself is not un common.There are many things that you could do that wouldn't effect your relationship.A few suggestions:Record each other making love and the watch it.You could purchase some sex toys and watch her using them.Alternativly, you could try a 'swinging party' - they are not as scary as they sound, and you don't have to do anything with anyone else, making love to your own partner, knowing someone else is watching / could come in is often good enough or even in the same room as someone else - however if you decided to go down that route, you need to ensure your relationship is rock solid and the boundries of the evening.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi
look like not one of my better moves. i will take your comments on board and pull my head in thanks
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (1 April 2008):
 You seem to be treading on quicksand here; do you subconsciously want to end your marriage? If your wife has given you permission to show her nude pictures around, then I have no problem with it, BUT if you are doing this without her knowledge, you are breaking her trust in a most fundamental way.
As far as her having sex with other men, why not just keep it a fantasy, if you're not sure? You could have a video of a man staring out at you from the screen playing during sex, maybe that will feel like someone is watching you.
If your wife is not interested in having sex with other men, then do not pressure her to do this, unless you are prepared for all the consequences that may follow. Think this all the way through, please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): I would be mortified if I found out that my partner had shown nude pics of me to someone else - if I wanted them to see that I would show them myself.
I think in this case you need to keep a fantasy a fantasy, theres no harm in using the thoughts to turn you on but carrying it out may put your marriage on the line.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 April 2008):
Based on what you just wrote me I'd say you'd best knock this nonsense off and keep your fantasy and your wife's pictures to yourself. Have some respect.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 April 2008):
Does your wife know you are showing people nude pics of her?
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Hiya my husband has the same thoughts but knows taht he could never let it happen.
For this to happen you must look at the pros and cons all the way
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