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writes:hello i am 14 years old and i have never had a girlfriend. i fancy this girl but am too scared to ask her out or even ask for her msn address. what should i do? please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008):
Hi my name is Sarah and i had the exact same problem as you when i was your age i'm 15 by the way lool .Try talking to her , or what i did spoke to her best friend/close fiend and he hooked me up with him and till this day we are still dating
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): aww thats so cute, im 14 and none of my guy friends actually admit to that, you sound lovely im sure any girl would like you if you talk to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Have You got any contact with her atall thru friends or anything?
Personally, i'd take a mate with me and just talk to her as normal as possible, kae genral conversation, and get to know her before you show your feelings, cause yoou might not even like her when you get to know her.
While you talk just say, have you got msn or anything cause i'd love to chat again, and progress from there.
One Of the main things girl love is a guy with a great sence of humour, so try and be funnyMaybe suggest a group gathering? Cinema Bowling Etc..
And when you feel the time is right, start flirting and get her to catch on that you like her abit more as a mate.
But Don't be Upset if things don't work out, the chances are as you get to know her in time she will grow fonder of you.
GOOD LUCK
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Awww that's the cutest thing...1st of all babe, don't use the word "fancy" ewww, it seems your problem is that you're trying to hard. Im not exactly sure why you consider her the girl of your dreams but I sure hope it not for her looks.people who look "hot" normally aren't what you expected them to be, and im speaking from experience. And as far as asking her for her msn. Just go for it you only get 2 live once and life is short. If she says no, which I doubt, then that's okay you have three choices, move on, switch roles and play hard to get orlast and not least keep trying but don't drool over her. Be natural, don't let her know you're that interested in her that'll only make her reject you more. Sometimes us girls like to be the chasers as well as the ones being followed every1 loves a challenge so if worst comes to work, let her know how u feel and if she rejects you completely ignore her, she'll regrett it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Hah! I remember this, this is me **years ago! One handy hint worth knowing is to invite her out to somewhere as if you're going anyway, with or without her. That way, you won't feel a prat if she declines. Something like " I generally go for a burger Friday nights - care to join me?"At the end of the day they're only fellow humans so go for it and please - don't be too despondant if you get blown out. You'll get loads more opportunities with loads more girls - trust me! But then again, you may be pleasantly surprised. Good luck mate.
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reader, xxxamandaxxx +, writes (1 April 2008):
hi, if i was you i would first find out what she liked or even send her an annoymes card saying how you feel and keep her guessing also put your msn adress inside it if you are to afraid of talking to her in person at the minute, i know it is scary 2 talk 2 girls for first time especially if you really like them anyway good luck and i hope u win her over!
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Walk up to her, ask her for her MSN address. Gain the courage! You can do it, I'm sure. I'm sure she'll give it to you. You seem nice. I'm sure she'll give you her email address. What harm can it to if she doesn't give it to you? You're young. There's more girls out there. Just ask her. You may regret it if you don't.Wishing you the best.xx
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