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female
age
51-59,
*oveStruck2
writes:I have been best friends with a man for about 1.5 years now. I am separated from my husband for over a year (live in difft cities) and he is single and has very old-fashioned values. He will only date a woman that is single, divorced or widowed. We spend several hours/day together. I am the first person he calls in the morning and the last person at night. He has never refused to do something for me and when I'm out of town he says he misses me "and I never miss ANYONE". I've told him that I love him and he said "you do? i love you too. I'm not sure how it happened, but it did." We have often laid in the same bed together and he snuggles me and I him. He's kissed me on the lips several times...nothing more than a soft peck. But he says we just have an intense friendship and I'm like his little sister. Recently he was talking about another female friend and said she wanted to kiss him on the lips. I said "just give her a sister kiss on the lips" and he quickly said "there's no such thing".So are we more than friends and he's just waiting for my divorce to be final or am I reading more into it?
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reader, Escalaya +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Best thing to do, would be to ask him about his feelings! Don't fancy yourself a mind reader, or anyone else. Ask him, and be sure.
~One love,
Escalaya
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