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writes:my boyfriend has recently only been interested in making himself come with my tits what does this mean? is he just using me as a "sex toy" ? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): It's a common thing in porn so that's where he gets it from. Whether he is treating you like a toy is honestly about are you letting him treat you like a toy or do you find it a turn on? If you don't like it then tell him you don't want to do that. If he's finishing almost every sex act with cumming on your tits, then I would say to put a stop to that because he's just imitating porn and not doing something unique with you and ask that sex ends the way you want sometimes. For many men seeing their cum on the most feminine part of a woman they really like is just a visual turn on and really not anything deviant from their perspective. But all the time isn't cool in my opinion and some guys may use it as a sort of "ownership" dominance attempt that is degrading and not respectful. Ultimately though you are the one who decides if you are a sex toy or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Not necessarily. He might just really enjoy it. Though he should have spoken to you about it first, just to check you were ok with it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): It probably means he's been watching too much porn. If you're OK with him unloading on your breasts, it's not a problem. If it makes you uncomfortable, speak up. Only YOU get to decide what you do with your body - and what other people can do to it. Or on it. If you do let him do this, don't be surprised if he asks/tries to cum on your face in the near future. Guys your age watch A LOT of porn and "facials" are pretty much standard in the porn they're watching. If they see it, they'll probably want to do it do you. Again, if you're not OK with that, say so - it's up to you. Never let a guy pressure you into doing something you're not totally comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Based on the limited information provided I wouldn't say he is using you as a sex toy. We all have our turn ons and from my experience - most guys like coming on tits.
Personally I like the feel of it and it is sign that your boyfriend obviously finds your body a huge turn on.
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