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writes: After sex with my bf (long term, we've only been with each other - sexually anyways, so it cant be an STD) i always seem to be getting a 'burning' sensation down there. So much that he can't go back in again. So its more like we have sex, he ejaculates, and that has to be the end of sex because I cant even stand oral. It just hurts, and i told him this and he said it looked a bit red..Why is this? its really bugging me because its affecting our sex life. I don't really fancy seeing a doctor about it though.. I'd die if i had to show him it..
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reader, red1982  +, writes (4 April 2008):
A yeast infection would never clear on it's own!!
But if lubrication is helping then it probably isn't a yeast infection causing the pain. Like annalisa said you need to work on your foreplay a little more, make sure that you are turned on enough for intercourse and that should stop things being painful.
If it hasn't stopped in a week or two you really should go to the Drs, because it could be a sign that something is not right.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 No you do not want to ignore, whether a yeast infection or something else. If this is the first time, and you can afford it, you could have a gynecologist confirm for you and then you will have a good idea for future reference. Many women get YIs or different kinds of urinary tract infections repeatedly throughout their lives. There are over the counter creams and suppositories that will clear it up and do not worry, if a yeast infection they are common and not very serious but do not ignore it. Go online and do some research.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut can I just ignore it? Btw we got some lube and it seems to help an awful lot!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (1 April 2008):
Sounds like the yeast infection. You can go see a female gynecologist rather than your regular doctor if you would feel more comfortable.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks :] I know its not advisable, but if I just left it (presuming it was a yeast infection), would it go away with time?
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reader, red1982 +, writes (1 April 2008):
Here are a few suggestions to try before seeing the Dr, just to rule out some of the non medical stuff. If you are using condoms, change brands. Ask your pharmacist for advice. A lot of people are allergic to latex and that could be the problem. Or you could be allergic to the spermicide or lubricant they have on the condom. Don't stop using condoms unless you are protected against pregnancy and have both been tested for STD's.Make sure that you are properly aroused before intercourse, and use a lubricant such as KY (or try one of the ones by Durex - they have loads of flavours and textures etc now) to make sure that the pain isn't caused by friction. And make sure that your boyfriend is not to rough during sex, take it at a speed that feels comfortable for you. Go to the toilet to pass urine before and after sex everytime, to prevent the risk of urine infections and cystitis.If these don't work, I know that you don't feel comfortable showing off your body to your dr, but I think it's the best thing for you to see them. You can always talk to the receptionist and say that it is a private matter and you would prefer to see a female Dr or nurse, they are used to dealing with this and should be sypathetic and make sure that your Dr is female. And a quick 5 minute check up has got to better then the alternative - pain everytime you have sex, or not having sex at all.
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reader, rcn +, writes (1 April 2008):
 My first reaction is STD. I think this is your answer, just found it on the net. How do I know if I have a yeast infection?
Yeast infections can be very uncomfortable, but are usually not serious. Symptoms include the following:
Itching and burning in the vagina and around the vulva (the skin that surrounds your vagina)
A white vaginal discharge that may look like cottage cheese
Pain during sexual intercourse
Swelling of the vulva
Yeast infections are so common that 3/4 of women will have one at some time in their lives. Half of all women have more than one infection in their lives. If you have symptoms of a yeast infection, your doctor will probably want to talk to you about your symptoms and examine you to make sure a yeast infection is the cause.
I recommends seeing a doctor, but mainly to rule out STD's because some do have some of the same simptoms. You can buy vaginal yeast infection medication at the store, or you can get a perscription from the doctor. I hope this helps you.
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