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writes:i have interest in this paticular guy, which is also my boyfriend's friend. well it sounded very wrong thou. somehow the things he do makes me feel as thou he has feelings for me. it is also hard for me to tell because he might not wants to show his feelings.as im his friend's girlfriend. most of the time we would meet up and he is always the one that doesnt talk to me.it seems weird cause in the past he would talked to me most of the time till they found out that my boyfriend has feelings for me. and also when we are out, i will notice him looking at me.im like in a delimma now. really feeling rather confused Reply to this Question
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (9 April 2008):
 If you like his friend more then you'll actually have to ask him how he feels about you. Tell him to be completely honest about it. You won't tell anyone and he won't either. Tell him that. See what he says. If he admits to liking you and you like him more, then you'll have to break up with your boyfriend so you don't hurt him any more than you have to. Hurting someone more than you need to is bad. :(
You have all the time in the world to make this decision, remember. I'm here if you need me. ^_^
Wishing you the best.
xxx
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reader, intricate +, writes (9 April 2008):
intricate is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha yes its fun indeed:) well im on a 50-50 side. at time when my boyfriend & i are having big quarrels. i did thought of breaking up with him, jus because of this reason. i felt that im not being fair to him. however, i cant bring myself to do it. he did way too much for me.
what if i likes his friend more? how do i make him confess or know that he is interested in me?
guess i will have to take time to decide which path i should take. do not want to ended up regretting the decisions that i have made.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (8 April 2008):
He definitely likes you. That's obvious now. You need to ask yourself whether you like him more than your boyfriend. If you do, then are you with the right person? That's what I'd think in this situation. If you like your boyfriend more then I'd try and get over the friend. I understand how hard it is to get over a crush, and it's way easier said than done, but remind yourself all the reasons why you like your boyfriend. That should get all of the lovey feelings towards your boyfriends friend.
He sounds like he really likes you, and that's why he's trying to get your attention so much. You should feel happy. Two guys like you. Just be careful not to hurt one of them more than you have to. The beach sounds fun ^_^
Wishing you the best
xxx
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reader, intricate +, writes (8 April 2008):
intricate is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey "x-kitycatlok-x" , thanks for answering to my question. :) thou im still unsure of what to do. i find that its hard to get over my boyfriend's friend. he is always doing something that will just catch my attention. im wondering if im thinking too much cause i have a crush on him.
rencently, my boyfriend & i went out with him to the beach late in the night to chill. while my boyfriend is talking on the phone, he took out his handphone & took a short video of me (i guess) but he told me im on video. cause he was facing his phone towards me where there is quite a big gap between me & my boyfriend. till i move away & toward my boyfriend, his phone is still facing towards me. thats when i notice it. at first i thought he was just causally taking video of e surroundings.
its all this little things that he did made it difficult for me to get over him.arghhh! sometimes im wondering if im thinking too much that he likes me.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (1 April 2008):
It sounds like he does like you, but is just unsure what to do as he doesn't want to upset your boyfriend in some way. That's what I think. That's what it sounds like. He does like you, but doesn't want to hurt your boyfriend. And you I don't think you would want to hurt your boyfriend either so I wouldn't bring up the conversation in front of him.Wishing you the bestxx
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