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*lueCrystall
writes:I need some advise please, I met a guy we were seeing eatch other for a few months, then al of the sudden he tells me he only want to be friends he is not ready for a relationship. A few months ago I ran into a guy that I know for 2 years he told me that he is single again. We went out a few times and I went to visist him the past long weekend then after that he told me the same that he just want to be friends.Both told me that Im a great person and they don't want to lose my friendship and they both still keep in touch with me. What am I doing wrong! Reply to this Question
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reader, BlueCrystall +, writes (10 April 2008):
BlueCrystall is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi there me again, the guy that i've met 2 years ago invited me to his place last night, he stay's on a farm a few km outside town when I got there he has lighten the fire place and got us a nice dvd we were lying on the coough watching the dvd he was holding me asked me out how have I been (did not see him for 3 wks) it was special for me, he asked me If I would rather sleep over he will wake me up early enough so I said yes. When the dvd was finish we went to bed he hold me we talked for a while then he started to be very romantic. Its the first time in my life that I have experience something like that. The after that we smoked a siggaret and he told me this is not right what we are doing in 2 months its the third time that we have slept toghether, I asked him why and he just kept telling me its not right. He asked me if im going to stay over I asked him does he want me to he said its for me to decide so I left. When we saw each other again he told me that he likes me after a while he told me that he just wants to be friends but he still likes me Im confuced I like this guy and I dont want to loose him even as a friend. Please help me I did not heard from him sins last night.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Your not doing anything wrong sweetheart, You just havent met the right one yet. You have to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince hunny (:0) Dont worry so much its not you, They like you but they are just probably not ready for commitment, It doesnt mean there is anything wrong with you they both love your friendship so you have got a lovely personality and your obviously lovely full stop... Its them hunny just not ready ok..Dont worry someone will come along it took me long enough to find the right person always have faith in you...TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 It could be their perceptions of you being coming on strongly when they are not ready for a relationship.They want to take things easy and slowly.Do you project a clingy or needy personality?
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