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writes:hey my problem is i dont like guys who hit on me instead i like guys who dont care for me or who dont ask me out..earlier a guy lets call him jack was crazy about me but i rejected him and he moved on but since he started seeing this girl lets call her jane i want to talk to jack even more..i am more attracted to guys who are comitted to someone than the one who are single???whats wrong with me Reply to this Question
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Nothing wrong with it at all. You always want what you can't have, remember. That's a good, accurate saying. It's quite common with people. Just don't act on it. If you act on your emotions then it can end up in people getting hurt, including yourself, and that's the last thing you want.
It's not wrong but be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): I think you like a challenge. If the guy is free and asking you out, wheres the effort so you wait until they are with someone and you have to work hard to get them. Unfortunately this can only lead to 3 endings - a successful affair behind the girlfriends back, you getting rejected as he is committed to someone else or the girlfriend becoming the one that gets hurt.
Try and direct the effort that you put into man chasing into other areas of your life. For example if you were a sales rep and took the attitude that you do to men your sales would be through the roof!
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Nothing is wrong with you it sounds as if when someone is genuine about you and showing you interest you feel as if you dont need it but as soon as that stops you crave for it. Its another form of attention seeking. People want what they cant have and you have gone that step further with it been with men.
There is nothing wrong with it unless someone gets hurt in the process.
Peaches
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