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writes:I am male and married. However when I was 15 years old I had a "relationship" with another 15 year old boy for about 6 months. We did mutual masturbation, oral and some anal sex. As far as I know, no one knows about our "relationship". I enjoyed it, and still think of him and the sex. I have not had sex with a boy since, but wonder what my sexuality would be considered.
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reader, Neal +, writes (3 April 2008):
Neal is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhile I love my wife, and enjoy sex with her, I must admit, I absolutly loved gay sex with the other boy. It ended because he moved. I miss both the boy and the sex. I fantasize often abot him, and gay sex in general. I also enjoy gay porn as well as straight porn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): You haven't mentioned if you think fondly of sex with your wife or with women? Being married doesn't automatically mean someone is straight or bisexual.
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reader, lboy  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 dear reader,
if u enjoyed it, and still think about it often and get turned on or start to miss @the old day' then i think you can safely call yourself bi-sexual but if your in no way turned on by the thought i'd say you were just bi-curious at the time.
lboy
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reader, agtorange +, writes (2 April 2008):
 Well, if you stopped having feelings when the relationship ended I think you'd be classed as bi-curious.
But if the idea of it all still turns you on then I think that makes you bisexual.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (1 April 2008):
 You would probably be classed as a bi-sexual. If you enjoyed it and still think about it a lot, then you probably are bi-sexual.
Wishing you the best
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reader, Jmo +, writes (1 April 2008):
 I don't think your sexuality necessarily needs to be "considered" anything. You feel what you feel and no label can change that. Instead, you have to ask yourself why you're still thinking about this relationship. Do you have a desire to sleep with a man again? Is it just this one boy you keep thinking about? Are you happy in your marriage? Basically as long as you're honest with yourself, any label you apply to yourself doesn't really matter.
-Jmo
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 Hi,
the fact that you mention nothing about your wife and moreover if you even enjoy sex with her leads me to think you are gay.
If you genuinely enjoy sex with your wife and find women physically appealing then you are bi-sexual.
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