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female
age
36-40,
*aylajane
writes:Hi!! me and my boyfriend have been together for just over a year now, when we first got together he was wonderful always took me out always paid me compliments and so on.. but now none of this happend it was my birthday on saturday and he said that we would go to a nice relaxing hotel in brighton, but his excuss not to go was because we couldnt leave the dog on it own even though my mother said she will have him and look after him! he's the sort of person that never thinks he is wrong so its always me that is wrong he snaps at me a lot. we have broken up twice and he has always been the first to call and try and make things work, but his problem is that he thinks that i will never leave him. i love him but the way the realationship is going is making me unhappy. i just want a little more from him. i dont know what to do please help. thanks
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reader, kassie  +, writes (1 April 2008):
 i think its quite ironic that men calls first to admit they made a mistake then comes crawling on hands and knees to make it right.i would tell him about his self and tell him about the snapping at you need to stop and when on a date tell him you should come first dog second.then try something to help lure him into taking you to that nice hotel(lol)!but good luck, if you wanna take my advice or someones else thats better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Well you have hit the nail on the head there. He thinks you will never leave him or he knows??
I think your strongest weapon here if you are unhappy would be to state that you are unhappy and if things dont change sharpish then you are leaving - mean it, he will know the difference.
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