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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Dear cupid:I have this guy who's very sweet and he's reall really hot. But for some reason he tells me that he feels that i don't give much attention to him.I have a seven month relationship with him we met in this online game so we started dating ever since. we did take a brake for a while cuz of the whole long distance thing.I told him that i will wait forever for him maybe in a couple of years we will meet we will meet in person.But he seems to think that i regret something or that ever since the brake the relationship hasen't completely cooled down.I really love him he's even asked me that if he's too clingy he's even stopped saying i love you and sort.Cuz he's unsure of what to think i'm willing to start a life with him.All he said was " i feel like you have someone else and you keep ignoring me and making me less needed" but i'm not i don't want my relationship to end.Plz i need some advice :(thnx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): Hi Hunny
How old is this guy hunny? He sounds really needy, You can only give as much as you physically and mentally can hunny..You mention a break is this a break in contact as from what you say you havent actually met in person yet..I had a b/f that needed constant reasurrance that he was cared for and it was draining, I mean it got to a point were it mattered not what I said or did he was never happy with attention he was getting, And thats not something you are doing wrong its their insecurity sweetheart..You can only do your best in a relationship and if you love someone it will come naturally but the long distance is more than likely the problem. If he has stopped saying "I love you" to you its not you hunny he wants a reaction he wants you to ask him whats going on, He likes attention alot..So just be carefull sometimes you can give all the attention in the world and its not enough and then you feel like you are now, Not happy..Just be you hunny thats all you can do, If he was the one who said you were not paying him enough attention then he said he was to clingy he has gone from being clingy to the opposite not saying those 3 little words...To get a reaction and to make you think love...TAKE CARE AND TAKE IT SLOW WITH LOTS OF LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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